In the escort industry, client screening is non-negotiable. A single lapse in judgment can lead to dangerous situations, financial loss, or legal trouble. Whether you’re new to the industry or a seasoned professional, refining your screening process is crucial for long-term safety and success.
This 1,500-word guide covers essential screening methods, red flags to watch for, and tools for secure communication to help you avoid scams and stay protected.
Why Screening Clients Matters
Before diving into how to screen, let’s discuss why it’s so important:
✅ Personal Safety – Avoid violent or unstable individuals.
✅ Financial Security – Prevent no-shows, scams, and time-wasters.
✅ Legal Protection – Reduce risks of law enforcement entrapment (where illegal).
✅ Professional Reputation – Maintain a high-quality clientele.
Bottom line: Screening isn’t just about avoiding bad dates—it’s about staying alive and thriving in this business.
Step 1: Essential Screening Methods
1. ID Verification
What to ask for:
A clear photo of their ID (driver’s license, passport) with sensitive info (address, ID number) blurred out.
A real-time selfie holding the ID to confirm authenticity.
How to verify:
✔ Cross-check the name with social media (LinkedIn, Facebook).
✔ Use a reverse image search (Google Lens) to ensure the ID isn’t stolen.
Tip: Store IDs securely (encrypted cloud storage) and delete them after the booking.
2. References from Other Escorts
How it works:
Ask the client for 2-3 recent references (escorts they’ve seen in the past 6 months).
Contact those escorts via verified ads or social media (not just an email).
What to ask:
“Was he respectful and on time?”
“Did he follow your rules?”
“Would you see him again?”
🚩 Red flag: If a client refuses or claims to have “no references,” proceed with extreme caution.
3. Deposit Requirements
A deposit (10-30%) filters out time-wasters and confirms seriousness.
Best payment methods (for privacy):
CashApp (use a business alias)
Cryptocurrency (Monero, Bitcoin)
Wishtender (discreet gift payments)
🚫 Avoid: PayPal/Venmo (can reverse payments or ban adult workers).
4. Employment/LinkedIn Check
For low-volume, high-end clients:
Ask for a work email verification or LinkedIn profile.
A professional with a public identity is less likely to be dangerous.
Note: Some clients prefer discretion, so balance this with other screening methods.
Step 2: Red Flags to Watch For
Even with screening, some dangerous clients slip through. Watch for these warning signs:
🚩 Refuses Screening
“I don’t do deposits.”
“I can’t send my ID for privacy reasons.”
Response: No exceptions. A genuine client understands safety.
🚩 Pushy or Aggressive Behavior
Demands explicit talk before meeting.
Tries to negotiate boundaries last minute.
Response: Block immediately.
🚩 New or Empty Social Media Profiles
A Twitter/Instagram account with no posts/followers could be fake.
Response: Require additional verification (e.g., video call).
🚩 Bad or No References
If references say he was rude, late, or unsafe, believe them.
Response: Decline the booking.
🚩 Requests for Unprotected Services
Any push for bareback (BB) services is a major red flag.
Response: Instant block. These clients are high-risk for STIs.
Step 3: Secure Communication Tools
Using the wrong apps can expose you to hacking, blackmail, or law enforcement. Here’s how to stay safe:
🔐 Encrypted Messaging Apps
App Pros Cons
Signal Best encryption Requires phone #
Session No phone # needed Smaller user base
Wire Secure, multi-device Less common
🚫 Avoid: Regular SMS, WhatsApp (linked to your real number).
📧 Burner Emails & VPNs
Use ProtonMail or Tutanota (encrypted email).
Always enable a VPN (NordVPN, ExpressVPN) to hide your IP.
📱 Burner Phones
A separate phone for escorting prevents doxxing.
Cheap prepaid phones work (no contract needed).
Step 4: In-Person Safety Measures
Even after screening, stay vigilant during meetings:
📍 Always Meet in Public First
A quick coffee/drink date helps assess the client’s vibe.
📱 Share Your Location
Use Find My Friends or Life360 with a trusted contact.
🚪 Hotel Safety
Never give your real room number upfront.
Meet in the lobby first to verify the client.
🆘 Emergency Protocols
Have a safe word with a friend who can call for help.
Apps like Noonlight can alert police with a button press.
Final Checklist for Safe Screening
Before accepting any booking:
✅ Verified ID + selfie
✅ 2 references checked
✅ Deposit received
✅ No red flags in conversation
✅ Secure communication only
Stay safe, stay smart, and screen like your life depends on it—because it does. 💜
